How To Thrive After Family Violence
Welcome! If you’re a survivor of Family Violence who is now on the journey to rebuilding your life, then you’re in the right place…
You’ve SURVIVED.
Now it’s your time to THRIVE
If you’ve left the abusive relationship permanently (congratulations – I know it’s not an easy road), you know that the journey to thriving is still not yet finished!
You’ve probably been through the initial counselling and legals. But support and funding has most likely run out, even though you need help to move to the next phase.
I know from personal experience that there’s very little support out there after the first 6-12 months of leaving a violent relationship. You can feel overwhelmed and abandoned, not sure where to go next.
That’s why I’ve created this program to help you.
Hi, my name is Di Simboro.
As a survivor (and now thriver!) of family violence I know what it’s like…the way it affects your mindset, identity and self-esteem.
My marriage was interracial, inter-religious, and I started our married life in a small, poor country in West Africa where I couldn’t speak the language or understand the culture.
I know that being in a foreign country creates a whole different layer of challenges when family violence is involved.
We returned to Australia and his abuse continued for more than 20 years. He was always calm and personable in public, but menacing in private. There was financial, verbal, sexual, spiritual and psychological abuse, but no black eyes and broken limbs, so I didn’t relate to his behaviour as ‘violence’.
But clearly it was unsustainable and I finally realised that all I could change was me. I stopped being Mrs Fix-it, stopped rescuing him. I gave him the house and all the stuff and I took the girls, never looking back. It wasn’t easy, but it was so much better.
Once I was “free”, while that was certainly a relief, I knew I wanted more. It wasn’t enough to simply survive. I wanted to thrive!
As part of my journey, I developed some simple but powerful strategies to create positive, long term change. I was able to rebuild, because I’d already proven to myself that I had the capacity to face really tough challenges.
I achieved financial independence – moving beyond reliance on child support from an unreliable man. I used whatever I had to invest in my own personal development – becoming a Master Coach and Behavioural Profiler.
To give back I volunteered as a support and advocate for other women going through abuse, which then led to starting my own business. I found my voice again, speaking about family violence at International Conferences and on Radio Interviews, plus I travelled extensively.
Now back on my feet, I decided it was time to share what I’d learned. Over the last 10 years, using my coaching skills, I’ve helped hundreds of women to Thrive After Family Violence.
This program is the next step. You see, I can only help so many women one-on-one. And not everyone can afford one-on-one coaching fees.
So I’ve packaged up my system into a unique support program – designed specifically for women who have completed the first 6-12 months of their journey, and now want support to thrive.
By unlocking the ‘why’ behind family violence in a way that is easy to understand, you’ll be able to let go of your past, regain your confidence and move forward to create a better future for you and your children.
Introducing The
“Thrive After Family Violence” Program
This program is for you if you can relate to any of these things:
You left the abusive relationship about 6-12 months ago
Since then you’ve been focused on “getting the legal stuff over with”
Now that’s mostly done, you’ve realised that the support you’ve been relying on is coming to an end
You’re worried that without that support, and without any other meaningful goals, you may “fall back in the hole”
…but you’re not sure where to start, or where to turn for help…
The “Thrive After Family Violence” program gives you the support you need, and right now you can join for just $1
Join the “Thrive After Family Violence Program” for just $1 for the first month*
*After the first month the price reverts to just $49 per month. You can cancel at any time.
Each week I send you a practical, nurturing, life-changing lesson to help you on your journey. Here’s just some of what you get in this powerful program:
A step-by-step system that helps you to overcome the trauma, let go of the guilt, rediscover your true self and live an amazing life surrounded by caring people
Learn to recognise the “red flags” that indicate that a relationship will become abusive, so you don’t make the same mistake again and attract the wrong type of partner
Activities that help you “be yourself” again, “liking who you are”
Understand why your relationship became abusive. Knowing the cause is a major step to moving on. It puts you in control and stops you feeling like a victim
Build confidence in your own ability to make decisions without fear
How to recognise when you are ready for love, and understand that kindness and gentleness in a man is actually strength and not weakness
Learn practical life skills (including a simple financial strategy that ensures money is always available), reducing stress and helping you to THRIVE.
Special Welcome Gift
As my way of welcoming you to the program I’m including a downloadable MP3 Hypnotherapy recordings.
The Hypnotherapy recordings have been designed specifically for women recovering from family violence.
Use them daily to reduce stress levels and anxiety, and specifically to recondition your mind from survivor to thriver.
Plus I think it’s time you were spoiled!
My Guarantee To You
Join the program and try it for a full
30 days for just $1.
If you’re not delighted by the program, for any reason, just ask and I’ll end your subscription immediately.
AND you get to keep the Hypnotherapy package as my way of saying “sorry for wasting your time”.
Here’s what others have said about this life-changing coaching
“What an amazing experience. Felt like there was a row of nails and one by one you hit each one on the head. Your insights will help many (and your practicality).”
Kate Quaye
“You have helped me work through one of the most challenging situations in which I have encountered in my life. Most importantly, you have given me a GIFT – that has empowered me to recognise the strengths in which I have within myself, that I can draw on to overcome life’s challenges both today and for the future.”
Mo Billy
Geraldine Ellawala, Lead Worker Women’s Program provided the following comments from women in the Multicultural Support Group – names have been withheld to ensure the women’s safety.
On the topic of Facing the Fear:
“I never knew that he was scared of me and that was the reason he was not letting me speak out – as the truth will come out.”
“It was awesome – everything just fell into place for me.”
“I now go out into my community and interact with them – before I thought it was my shame, now I know it’s not.”
On the topic of Why People Do What They Do:
“It is good to understand why people need to behave in such abusive ways.”
“I am so glad now I understand why I do things too.”
On the topic of Moving Beyond Regret:
“I felt such relief – it has freed me from holding onto anger for the last three years.”
“This is great, it has freed me to move on and accept that I have grown from my abusive relationship.”
I realised I have no regrets for leaving the children with him – if I didn’t I wouldn’t know what he was capable of. Now my children and I are safe.”
Click on the link below to get instant access
to the “Thrive After Family Violence” program For Just $1*
(* Includes your free gift of hypnotherapy recordings)
Join the “Thrive After Family Violence Program” for just $1 for the first month*